Thursday, October 22, 2015
"From Baptist Preacher to Mormon Teacher" Book Review
If you don't know me, I love to hear people's stories: where they came from, how they met their significant others, what their talents and hobbies are and where they learned them, etc. As a Mormon, one of my favorite stories to listen to is people's conversion stories: where they first heard the gospel, what touched their spirits and made them want to learn more, what was difficult for them to accept, etc. Therefore, I was excited to review From Baptist Preacher to Mormon Teacher by Wain Myers (with Kelly Martinez). Brother Myers candidly and humorously shares his journey to becoming a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and progressing in the gospel.
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*Brother Myers is honest and real. You can feel his personality through the book so it seems that if you met him, you wouldn't consider him a stranger but a friend.
*The book is very engaging and easy to read. Sometimes it read like a novel and sometimes like a compelling church talk (which he says he practices all the time, so maybe that's why it showed in his writing, too!).
*I learned some things about the Church and gospel that I didn't know before. I won't tell you what they were, though--you have to read the book yourself!
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*The last quarter felt a little disjointed to me, bouncing from topic to topic and reading more like a sermon than a story line (I guess his preaching days haven't fully left him, lol). I would've liked it organized differently.
If you enjoy a fresh and funny story about a real person and their spiritual journey, I recommend you read this book!
Thursday, October 15, 2015
For Keshia: My Latest Articles
Keshia, you asked that I share the articles I write, so here are the ones that have been published since my original blog post. I am now a regular contributor to these three sites: Skirt Collective, a liberal feminist site (though that one unfortunately has stopped paying); Well Cultured, a men's online magazine; and Baby Gaga, a pregnancy and baby site. Enjoy reading them and thank you for caring!
5 Myths About Female Modesty (this one got a TON of exposure!)
How Not to Teach Modesty to Young Women (my LDS version of the previous article)
How Lammily and Others Are Breaking the Period Taboo
When You Should Act Like a Gentleman
Belts: The One Accessory Every Guy Should Have and How to Wear It
Words You Don't Want to Get Wrong at Work
Messenger Bag or Briefcase?
7 Bodily Fluids You Deal With During Pregnancy
5 Myths About Female Modesty (this one got a TON of exposure!)
How Not to Teach Modesty to Young Women (my LDS version of the previous article)
How Lammily and Others Are Breaking the Period Taboo
When You Should Act Like a Gentleman
Belts: The One Accessory Every Guy Should Have and How to Wear It
Words You Don't Want to Get Wrong at Work
Messenger Bag or Briefcase?
7 Bodily Fluids You Deal With During Pregnancy
Friday, September 25, 2015
Caden's First Weeks of School
Caden became a kindergartner this school year! I was worried about a few things; namely, the long school day, going potty at school, and his sensitivity causing him to cry often. On the first day, Caden woke up excited and ready to go.
We all walked him to school. Gabe was mad he couldn't stay, too. When I picked Caden up afterward, I could tell he loved it!
On the second day, he told me not to pack him a sandwich, and I haven't since then. He survives on just snacks, which surprised me, because at home he is always hungry. I'm not complaining though--it means less money spent on bread! When it was time to get him, it was raining hard. It settled down but then picked up again on our way home. It made me reconsider my decision to skip the bus. I chose not to use it because Caden wouldn't get home until an hour after school is over and he gets car sick.
The third day was Welcome Night, and Caden showed us around his classroom.
The fourth day ended the first week of school. Caden did very well behaviorally and academically, no surprise. He's made new friends, particularly the next-door-neighbor girl who's in his class. He loves all the specials (library, gym, music, and art). Each day he tells me who got in trouble or cried, who he played with or sat next to, who had classroom jobs, and what they did and learned.
I called the transportation office the next morning to clarify the bus situation. Turns out I can use it whenever I like. Caden was very excited to hear that he would finally be able to go on the bus the following Monday! He takes it every morning to school, and then I pick him up in the afternoon. I haven't decided what to do yet come winter.
As for all my worries, Caden has adjusted amazingly to the long school day, as have Gabe and I. Gabe is actually much calmer and more manageable with Caden gone, although Gabe is usually the instigator of trouble. We now have one-on-one bonding time, and I can get more done while he naps since Caden isn't home to interrupt me.
Caden didn't use the potty at school the first week. I thought it was because he didn't want to wipe himself, but turns out he was afraid the flush would be loud. He's gone pee a couple times since, but saves the rest for once at home. However, he does all the wiping himself now. He's cried a couple times at school, twice when physically hurt and once because the fire drill alarm scared him (he hates loud noises). Each time he recovered quickly, he said.
Yesterday he got his first yellow, which is the first warning for misbehavior. Previously, he had all "green/green" days. I asked him if he cried for getting in trouble. He said no. In fact, he was smirking while telling me. Apparently, he still thinks what happened was funny (a certain boy in his class who seems to have taken on the role of class clown has not been a good influence on him, lol). He lost his after-school TV time and that was that.
Overall, Caden enjoys school very much. He still gets excited to go every day and is bummed he can't go on the weekends too. The bus ride has still retained its novelty. It's so cute seeing his bright smile as he waves goodbye to us from his window. I love my little kindergartner!
We all walked him to school. Gabe was mad he couldn't stay, too. When I picked Caden up afterward, I could tell he loved it!
On the second day, he told me not to pack him a sandwich, and I haven't since then. He survives on just snacks, which surprised me, because at home he is always hungry. I'm not complaining though--it means less money spent on bread! When it was time to get him, it was raining hard. It settled down but then picked up again on our way home. It made me reconsider my decision to skip the bus. I chose not to use it because Caden wouldn't get home until an hour after school is over and he gets car sick.
The third day was Welcome Night, and Caden showed us around his classroom.
The fourth day ended the first week of school. Caden did very well behaviorally and academically, no surprise. He's made new friends, particularly the next-door-neighbor girl who's in his class. He loves all the specials (library, gym, music, and art). Each day he tells me who got in trouble or cried, who he played with or sat next to, who had classroom jobs, and what they did and learned.
I called the transportation office the next morning to clarify the bus situation. Turns out I can use it whenever I like. Caden was very excited to hear that he would finally be able to go on the bus the following Monday! He takes it every morning to school, and then I pick him up in the afternoon. I haven't decided what to do yet come winter.
As for all my worries, Caden has adjusted amazingly to the long school day, as have Gabe and I. Gabe is actually much calmer and more manageable with Caden gone, although Gabe is usually the instigator of trouble. We now have one-on-one bonding time, and I can get more done while he naps since Caden isn't home to interrupt me.
Caden didn't use the potty at school the first week. I thought it was because he didn't want to wipe himself, but turns out he was afraid the flush would be loud. He's gone pee a couple times since, but saves the rest for once at home. However, he does all the wiping himself now. He's cried a couple times at school, twice when physically hurt and once because the fire drill alarm scared him (he hates loud noises). Each time he recovered quickly, he said.
Yesterday he got his first yellow, which is the first warning for misbehavior. Previously, he had all "green/green" days. I asked him if he cried for getting in trouble. He said no. In fact, he was smirking while telling me. Apparently, he still thinks what happened was funny (a certain boy in his class who seems to have taken on the role of class clown has not been a good influence on him, lol). He lost his after-school TV time and that was that.
Overall, Caden enjoys school very much. He still gets excited to go every day and is bummed he can't go on the weekends too. The bus ride has still retained its novelty. It's so cute seeing his bright smile as he waves goodbye to us from his window. I love my little kindergartner!
Friday, September 18, 2015
"Understanding Your Endowment" Book Review
For those of you who are LDS, have you ever left the temple feeling the Spirit yet also confused about certain aspects of the ceremony? I'd be lying if I said I haven't. Whether or not you have felt that way, I highly recommend you read the book Understanding Your Endowment by Cory B. Jensen. As described on the publisher's blog:
*It definitely increased my desire to return to the temple often and put more effort into letting the Spirit teach me the deeper meanings behind the symbolism and their applications in my life.
*It discusses temple covenants and ordinances thoroughly and helpfully without divulging sacred information.
*I appreciated Brother Jensen's frequent reminders that symbolic interpretations aren't limited and are very personal and we should discard anything he says that isn't helpful to us. He doesn't pretend to know all the answers or assert that only his views are correct.
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*Although it can be read by members preparing to enter the temple for the first time, it is best for those who have been at least once so they can follow the discussion. However, there are still sections that members should read beforehand to help them have a better experience.
*The background on covenants made me glad I did not live before Christ's Atonement ended the need for sacrifices and other gruesome rituals! It did explain a lot of modern practices, though.
I think all members should read and apply this book and use it to teach others preparing for the temple so they can have more meaningful first-time experiences and learn how to make the most of future visits. For a more spiritual review, go to my Mormon Light blog.
For many members of the Church, the temple endowment remains something of a mystery. Yet when understood, the temple can function in our lives as a modern day Liahona, giving us our bearings in our mortal journey back to our Father. Understanding Your Endowment is packed with insights and keys, which can help you unlock the temple’s purpose and meaning in your life. It will help you understand the blessings the Lord offers His children through His temples and will enrich your personal temple worship.
SmilesUnderstanding Your Endowment examines topics such as covenant ceremonies, the initiatory ordinances, the endowment, and temple sealings in a manner that is plain and easy to understand while still respecting their sacred and confidential nature. Whether you are preparing to enter the temple for the first time or already attend regularly, your temple worship will be enhanced by reading this book.
*It definitely increased my desire to return to the temple often and put more effort into letting the Spirit teach me the deeper meanings behind the symbolism and their applications in my life.
*It discusses temple covenants and ordinances thoroughly and helpfully without divulging sacred information.
*I appreciated Brother Jensen's frequent reminders that symbolic interpretations aren't limited and are very personal and we should discard anything he says that isn't helpful to us. He doesn't pretend to know all the answers or assert that only his views are correct.
Frowns
*Although it can be read by members preparing to enter the temple for the first time, it is best for those who have been at least once so they can follow the discussion. However, there are still sections that members should read beforehand to help them have a better experience.
*The background on covenants made me glad I did not live before Christ's Atonement ended the need for sacrifices and other gruesome rituals! It did explain a lot of modern practices, though.
I think all members should read and apply this book and use it to teach others preparing for the temple so they can have more meaningful first-time experiences and learn how to make the most of future visits. For a more spiritual review, go to my Mormon Light blog.
Monday, August 31, 2015
Motivational Monday: Fame vs. Character
Sunday, August 30, 2015
Caden Is Five!
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| 10 days old |
I remember thinking when Caden was born, "Before I know it, he will be five years old and going to kindergarten!" That time has finally arrived. Caden turned five last week and will be starting school next week.
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| Park trip on his birthday |
Caden is quite the character. He just keeps getting better with age; maybe that's why he's so cheesy (bad joke, I know). He has the most creative imagination. He loves to play pretend and turn everyday objects into props. This boy is definitely my son! He also enjoys being outside, whether it's playing at the park, picking up sticks on a walk, or riding his bike.
His current favorites:
- Movie: How to Train Your Dragon 1&2
- TV show: Curious George
- Music: How to Train Your Dragon 2 soundtrack; before that, it was big band swing and upbeat classical music
- Book: changes every week
- Color: blue
- Food: spaghetti and meatballs or lemon chicken and "spaghetti rice" (rice pilaf)
- Drink: apple juice
- Toy: cars and stuffed animals (Although he doesn't sleep with Elmo every night anymore, he still calls Elmo his baby and wants him whenever he's upset.)
- Friend: "all my friends love me!" was his answer, lol.
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| Hiccup from How to Train Your Dragon |
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| Toothless the dragon (notice Elmo has a costume too, lol) |
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| Hiccup's wings from How to Train Your Dragon 2 |
Some funny things he still says are packpack, repartment, and tomato for potato (but never the vice versa). He finally figured out how to say spaghetti correctly. He still pronounces his r's as w's but no longer confuses y and l. He can read basic words and write pretty well. He's still obsessed with poop, farts, and bums, and he's going through an annoying copycat phase.
I love my Caden so much. He is so silly and sweet and smart and sensitive. I try my best to nurture his spirit so he grows confident in himself. I see many of my weaknesses in him and I want him to overcome them so he doesn't continue to suffer from them as an adult as I do. I can't wait to see how he continues to progress!
Friday, August 28, 2015
The Boys' Combined Birthday Party
This year we did a combined birthday party for the boys, the last year we can probably do so. It was Cars themed but simple and laid back. We had it at the park so the kids could run around (and I wouldn't have to clean my house before or after).
I painted the kids' faces as we waited for everyone to arrive and had Cars pages for the kids to color. We had pizza and snacks for lunch.
Instead of spending more money on Cars-themed cups, I printed out a Cars picture with each child's name and taped it to a plain cup.
After lunch we did a water balloon toss that turned into a fight and then everyone ganging up on Justin. It was awesome.
Next was cake and ice cream. Again, instead of spending extra money ordering a cake or making my own from scratch (I didn't have the time, either), I found a chocolate cake at the store and replaced its butterfly decorations with my own Cars ones.
Unfortunately, the wind prevented the boys from being able to blow out the candles.
Presents followed, and the boys were thoroughly spoiled with lots of thoughtful gifts.
Everyone got a Cars favor box before leaving; we ran out of time for balloon animals.
My boys had a great time, and I hope everyone else did, too. I may not put much effort in decorations and such, but I always try to make parties enjoyable and fun for my guests, particularly the kids.
I painted the kids' faces as we waited for everyone to arrive and had Cars pages for the kids to color. We had pizza and snacks for lunch.
Instead of spending more money on Cars-themed cups, I printed out a Cars picture with each child's name and taped it to a plain cup.
After lunch we did a water balloon toss that turned into a fight and then everyone ganging up on Justin. It was awesome.
Next was cake and ice cream. Again, instead of spending extra money ordering a cake or making my own from scratch (I didn't have the time, either), I found a chocolate cake at the store and replaced its butterfly decorations with my own Cars ones.
Unfortunately, the wind prevented the boys from being able to blow out the candles.
Presents followed, and the boys were thoroughly spoiled with lots of thoughtful gifts.
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| Bubble bath so no more soap fiascos! Also, Gabe would not let go of that last water balloon, lol. |
Everyone got a Cars favor box before leaving; we ran out of time for balloon animals.
My boys had a great time, and I hope everyone else did, too. I may not put much effort in decorations and such, but I always try to make parties enjoyable and fun for my guests, particularly the kids.
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