The five goals Little Misters and I had for 2011 and an assessment of how we did:
- Work on infant potty training: He was great in the beginning of the year and went downhill in summer.
- Learn five ASL signs: Little Misters signs milk, all done, more, please, and up (my own version). He knows potty but doesn't sign it and will copy eat.
- Play and read books together: I was inconsistent throughout the year. I read a lot to him when he went through his huge book phase a few months ago and we've been going to the park once a week for the past few months. At home I can improve.
- Have a consistent schedule: Check! But now that he is older, I need to make a new one.
- Finish organizing and decorating his room: Almost done. I just need to hang up a few more things.
Our goals for 2012:
- Work on infant potty training. I want him to at least tell me when he has to poop. I'll start by taking him every hour and diaper change. No more laziness!
- Get him sleeping in his crib and waking up no more than once. He was doing great until 9 months hit and so did chaos for three weeks. Since then, every time he made progress something drastic happened, so I gave up. I'm hoping that converting his crib to a toddler bed might help because I can lie with him in his bed to help him back to sleep.
- Wean! This kid is very attached to nursing. He drinks cow's milk and water, but I still nurse 4 or more times a day and at night. I had gotten it down to 3 or 4 a day, but this last week Little Misters was sick from a double ear infection and teething and wanted nothing but me. I want him completely weaned by the time he turns 2.
- Make a new schedule. It will include play time with me and with Dad and learning time. Our mornings are usually good; it's just the afternoons that are hard.
- Establish discipline. I just started reading The No-Cry Discipline Solution by Elizabeth Pantley, which I got for Christmas. I hope it works for us!
1 comments:
I love how you assessed the progress on your 2011 goals.
I think you would find useful a handout and info I have on Conscious Discipline from Becky Bailey. I searched around and couldn't find it and got frustrated because the info on her website is a bit convoluted.
If I find it I'll post it for you, it made a huge difference in how I viewed discipline. Major helpful things are telling children "what TO do instead of what not to do," ie: Instead of saying, "don't walk on the grass" you would say, "keep your feet on the sidewalk." Other revolutionary things are modeling, giving choices, discipline is kind of what I do for a living, soooo if you ever need any input or want to throw around some ideas, I would actually ENJOY it.
I'm sure you'll keep us updated on valuable insights from Pantley's book. :)
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